“How do I prove I’m the right choice?” It’s the question I hear most often from leaders in their first weeks in a new role. And it’s the wrong one. Not because proving your value doesn’t matter, but because it rests on a category error that makes most transitions fragile: treating entry into a role as a performance problem, when it is first and foremost a problem of interpretation.
From day one, you are being watched, and an organization that watches you doesn’t record your intentions. It records signals. How quickly you understand, how much control you show, where you look when something goes wrong, who you listen to first. Those signals are interpreted, and that interpretation solidifies into a reputation much faster than technical competence can later correct. This is the true mechanism of the first 90 days: you aren’t building results; you are calibrating how the system reads you. And you are doing it while the system, in turn, is still deciding who you are.
That’s why the useful question isn’t “How do I prove my value?” but “What experience of my leadership am I creating, and how will it be interpreted by those who don’t yet have a reason to trust me?” It’s a CEO mindset, regardless of the title: reading the system before moving it, because at this stage, every movement is already a message.
Michael Watkins, in his work on transitions, is often cited for an idea that almost everyone misunderstands: getting up to speed quickly. The speed that matters isn’t the speed of action; it’s the speed of understanding. Accelerating action in a system you haven’t yet read doesn’t reduce the risk of transition—it amplifies it, because every premature move becomes a data point others will use to define you. Watkins himself describes a structural shift that few face consciously: from specialist to generalist, from tactician to strategist, from problem-solver to the one who decides which problems deserve attention. It’s not a promotion; it’s a career change, and it requires deactivating the very skills that made you effective until yesterday.
This is where the most counter-intuitive part comes in. Marshall Goldsmith condensed it into a phrase that has become almost a cliché: what got you here won’t necessarily get you there. But the point isn’t that your strengths stop being valuable. The point is that, under observation and in a new context, they are re-coded. Decisiveness is read as impatience. Direct clarity as poor listening. Depth of experience as a lack of willingness to learn. Control, which always protected you from error, as a lack of trust in those who should execute. The problem isn’t the strength; it’s the gap, often invisible to you, between what you intend and what the other person perceives. And in a transition, that gap isn’t a relational detail: it is the material your initial reputation is made of.
I’ve seen this pattern many times. A leader joins, feels the pressure to generate value immediately, and starts providing direction, energy, and solutions. Meanwhile, the system is asking for something different and harder to hear: understand me before you change me; read my tensions before bringing your answers. It’s not resistance to change. It’s the condition for change to hold later on.
Leaders who navigate a transition well aren’t the fastest. They are the ones who distinguish movement from progress. They observe where trust is already present and where it is fragile. They understand which stakeholders can accelerate their impact and which, silently, can neutralize it. They treat the first months as diagnostic work, not demonstrative. And they know one simple and uncomfortable thing: at this stage, every behavior is already communication, and there is no option not to communicate.
It is also the reason why I don’t consider the first 90 days a checklist. A checklist provides reassurance, but it doesn’t replace judgment, and in transitions, judgment is exercised through uncomfortable questions. What mandate am I really taking on, beyond the written one? Which expectations are explicit and which are only implicit, and do I have the courage to ask? Where am I still operating with the habits of my previous role because they give me security? Which conversation am I avoiding to make the start seem smoother than it is?
The Center for Creative Leadership describes leadership as a social process that produces direction, alignment, and commitment. It’s a precise lens for this phase, on one condition: reading it as the outcome of behaviors observed over time, not as something announced. Direction isn’t what you declare in a town hall. Alignment isn’t the “yes” gathered in a meeting. Commitment isn’t compliance. All three are the result of credibility that accumulates through repetition, signal after signal. And that is exactly why intention alone isn’t enough: no one has access to your intentions; everyone has access to your behaviors.
So the question really worth asking is this: after 90 days, what do you want people to say about your leadership when you aren’t in the room? Not about your title, not about your resume, not about your technical competence. About your leadership. And, above all, what repeated behaviors will make that description credible? Because credibility isn’t born from good intentions. It’s born from consistency, observed by others, under pressure.
My Walk the Talk Reflection
It’s a discipline I learned in the field, not in theory. Every time I entered a new role, my first priority wasn’t to get noticed, but to listen without prejudice: to get to know my team, understand their perspectives, and then broaden my view to the wider context, involving other functions—particularly sales—to understand where marketing could create real value for the business.
It’s part of my Walk the Talk. If I ask a leader not to rush into action before understanding the system, I must exercise the same discipline in my own work: listen before framing, observe before interpreting, remain curious before offering structure.
The First 90 Days CEO Check
- Am I accelerating understanding, or just action?
- Do I really know what my key stakeholders expect, or am I assuming it?
- Is the trust I’m building based on observable behaviors or good intentions?
- Which habits from my previous role am I still using because they reassure me, not because they are needed here?
- What experience of my leadership are people having right now, and does it match the one I believe I’m providing?
#theceochallenge #TheExecutiveChallenge
This month, don’t just ask yourself: “What do I need to achieve in my first 90 days?”. Ask yourself: “What experience of my leadership do I want to create, and what behaviors will make it real in the eyes of those who are still evaluating me?”.
Your next level probably doesn’t start with a bigger decision or a stronger statement. It starts by entering the room differently: less focused on proving, more on understanding; less driven by pressure, more by the impact you leave even when you don’t realize it.
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FAQ
How do I handle the pressure to deliver results during the first 90 days without rushing?
Prioritize ‘diagnostic wins’ that solve small friction points through listening rather than structural changes. While stakeholders expect action, the most valuable result in this phase is demonstrating that you understand the system’s nuances before attempting to fix it. This approach builds a reputation for being strategic rather than impulsive. Instead of launching a major initiative, focus on resolving a long-standing minor issue that requires cross-functional collaboration, which proves your competence while buying you time for deeper analysis.
Why are my proven leadership strengths being misinterpreted in my new role?
Your strengths are being ‘re-coded’ by a system that lacks context regarding your intentions and past successes. In a new environment, high-performance traits like decisiveness can be perceived as impatience, and deep expertise can look like a lack of curiosity. To bridge this gap, you must narrate your process and explain the ‘why’ behind your actions. Transparency helps align the organization’s interpretation of your behavior with your actual leadership intent, preventing your best qualities from becoming liabilities during the transition.
What are the most critical signals to send to build trust during a leadership transition?
The most effective signals involve showing respect for the existing culture and prioritizing the speed of understanding over the speed of action. Demonstrating that you value the team’s history before proposing changes signals that you are a partner rather than an invader. Avoid the ‘hero’ trap of offering immediate solutions. Instead, signal curiosity by asking about unwritten rules and implicit expectations. This shows you are a leader capable of reading the entire system, which is the fastest way to gain credibility with stakeholders who don’t yet know you.
